Why is everyone so hard on Debbie Rowe?

We have to remember that we really don't know the entire story and rarely does the media tell the truth. Debbie just does not appear to be in a position (emotionally) to take on children. It's possible that she may not be actually "fighting" to gain "custody" of the children, but maybe she has certain concerns for them such as wanting them to only have supervised visitation with Joseph and wanting to have some kind of contact with them herself...but not physical custody. And why do so many people judge her for being a surrogate when that is done all over the world? We don't really know the terms...that was between her, Michael and God...